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Ending the cycle of PMO

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by Kitchyguy, Feb 16, 2018.

  1. Kitchyguy

    Kitchyguy Fapstronaut

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    Hello NoFap community!
    I'm a 25 year old newbie fapstronaught. I first started watching porn with friends when I was 13. I started experiencing symptoms of PIED when I was 19 years old. It has strained my romantic relationships, and has led to me seeking taboo and sketchy sex with partners. I decided to break the cycle of PMO by excluding PM until I am fully rebooted. I am actively dating and still want to try sex, and yesterday I was honest with a partner about my PIED (being honest was a total confidence boost for me!) and they took it well. Today I'm on my 1 day streak :)

    Any advice would be great, and feel free to message me
     
    Last edited: Feb 16, 2018
  2. Commuter

    Commuter Fapstronaut

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    I can only advice you from my experience to not touch your dick unless you are washing it or peeing. Also delete facebook and instagram. Do sports. Take cold showers and when flatlines kick in STAY STRONG! You fucking want to have (normal) sex, not to embarass yourself in bed!!! Always keep that in mind when you are feeling low!

    I just relapsed yesterday because I ignored the above mentioned! Threw away a streak of 21 days. Don't be a fool like me!

    Stay strong
     
  3. Protagoras

    Protagoras Fapstronaut

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    Welcome. HERE are some things helping me.
     
  4. Kitchyguy

    Kitchyguy Fapstronaut

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    thanks for the advice man :)
    I’ve already started getting chubs when rubbing against a partner; which is an improvement. I’m still trying to have regular and normal sex, but I think it will be some time until I get there. Maintained an erecting through oral last night :D What worries me is the chaser effect, which i noticed gets me after any kind of sex :/

    I have a few hookup apps I definitely need to get rid of because they could lead to PMO. Tinder, Grindr etc. at least you got to 21 days man, good job! I’m going to do whatever I need to do that I can have awesome sex with other people and fulfilling and romantic relationships.
     

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