Everyone is adjusting, except for me

I guess I don’t really know why you went to Kenya? Schooling elsewhere is far different from America. It’s basically the vanilla of learning which means “light”.


One thing I can really say is.. Remember that person before you went. Remember that joyful social self you were before you got sent. The school might of changed you, yes. Teachers there had no tolerance for hitting a student. But the fact is you’re back now it’s not gonna hurt you anymore and you can continue your studies with a free mind.


I believe it made you sharp and more wise. You can’t let it cancel out your freedom here.

If you are in need of help we’re all here for practice on socializing.

 

I'm sorry for your condition, but don't be nor feel like a victim and most of all don't hate yourself!
You can be better that this, and it's up to you to live in the past or use that sh*t you went through to fuel your self improvement

If I were you i would focus on one problem at a time. Stay to the rules of NOFAP, commit yourself to reach a goal! You will see how many improvements you can have without pPMO addiction! Good luck!

 

Yes, don’t hate yourself!!! You‘re a fapstronaut, you‘re working on improving yourself. Be proud and don’t let the abuse take away your shine! I am very sorry for whatever you went through…

 

I dealt with enough physical abuse from the kids not really the teachers, but that’s another story. I think it does change us. I didn’t come out of my bubble until I was late into Junior year when I started to become so much more happier. It was like a longated dopamine rush. I’m glad your parents finally listened. If I dealt with both kids and teacher abuse I would have probably been in a facility trying to get better.

 

Ok listen. I am a 49 year old mentally ill man. I have turned my life around, so can you.

Here's the plan. I want you to do a hard mode 90 day reboot. Cut back on your food, get going on your fitness. Go to the gym, get a personal trainer if you need to.

You got to get off of the porn, video games and social media if you want to change.

You'll definitely suffer, but it will pay in giving you strong confidence.

 

Hey man, dont know if youre still checking the site but start to do things you enjoy. I'll say something against some of the others so far: dont go backwards, dont look back on find memories, dont try to recover what you lost, it's gone forever.

You're not too young man, you're just early in the process. And I wish I took this forum more seriously when I was your age. This isn't the end of your life, it's the beginning. It's an opportunity to do something awesome and create a whole new person. Being 13 is hard, read some good books, one that helped me was 7 Habits for Highly Effective Teens. Keep moving forwards, and the earlier you start NoFap the further you will go in life.