"Female attraction"

Yep,finally when they hit the wall and they are 30 and you are 30 and well established in your career, then they want you. But the question is, do you want them at 30 when they are all used up? The answer is NO. So, what I'm gonna do is work on my body and conversation skills,while putting heavy focus on my career and if a quality woman comes along in that time I'd make it happen. If not,so be it.

 

It's an extrovert's world - gotta love dancing and partying, AND be hot to boot, otherwise you're toast

 

That's weird as hell. When I always have a streak of 18 days or higher, my hair becomes more stylish and manageable and my acne starts fading slowly. When I end up binge fapping, my hair can't be managed, skin looks dull, few pimples pop up, and I just look like a guy who hasn't slept for a week. I know it's tough to believe, but in my case, this NoFap thing does work on attractiveness.

 

My advice to Mandala. Change your priority. Dont put 'the girl' at the top. That's really where you're going wrong.

Think about it from her perspective, she's being approached by a guy who just has to have a girl in his life because that will radically change everything for him, he wont be lonely anymore, he wont be insecure, he'll have everything he needs (And by the way, she'll sense all that as you approach her). Now wouldn't a girl be more attracted to a guy who isn't all the above?

 

I'd say if this is your attitude, you're still in need of some work bud :/

 

What attitude exactly? Care to explain?

 

The testosteron boost always feels awesome to me, I think women are naturally attracted to confidence, hormones will give you that.

 

Saying that women are "...all used up at 30...", assuming that they suddenly snap at 30, that men are implicitly more established in their careers then, etc.

It kinda suggests some underlying thoughts that are probably part of why guys with them struggle with women

 

Most of them are used up, sexually or emotionally. And even if they are not their reproductive qualities start to decline and there is a clear rush to find a provider for the children. However at 30, they are not as attractive as they were at 20 so their bargaining power is worse off. Was just describing a general trend I see in the world around me. Of course there's decent women out there and there are men who are a wreck at 30 as well. The unfortuane relaity is when you look for a decent woman and you barely can find her beacuse of the happenstance, that we are in. That is no way excuse to stop looking or saying women are good for nothing, but it swtill sucks, that's how I feel.

 

Sorry buddy, but you definitely don't have high verbal and social IQ, judging by your posts on here. You post meandering streams of thoughts all about yourself, you barely engage with anyone else except to try and catch them out or try and confirm your own prejudice, you have no interest in women except to fuck them and blame everyone but yourself when they don't want to. Can you walk into a room of strangers and make a new friend? I don't mean go and talk at someone for a while, but a new friend that is actually engaged with you and you have mutual respect for. This is considerably easier than seducing a woman, but it's a similar skill.
The good news is, that you can learn these skills. It isn't even that hard to learn, a basic bit of empathy goes a long way. But you have to take personal responsibility for your own life, stop blaming 'society' and 'women' for your own failings.

I'm still engaging you because I want to help you get out of this rut. Life doesn't have to be like this.

 

Literally this...

 

I don't know for you buddy,for me nofap works.I have reduced dark circles under eyes,sometimes when i sleep good there is no dark circles,hair looks better,eyes are shiny.I even get comments from people that i look good.I used to picture myself last year+ i see change.Don't do this for girls,do nofap for yourself then better things will come.

 

Hey, if it works...