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FIGHTING EMOTIONS THAT TRIGGER US

For Fapstronauts of the Protestant Christian faith.

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    timcia Fapstronaut

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    Psalm 119:37
    Turn my eyes from looking at worthless things; and give me life in your ways.

    Turning instantly from looking at sinful things is a key to freedom. Turning instantly from thinking about anything that leads to addiction is vital. Turning instantly from negative emotions is a key to change.

    Pray: “Father, take away my spirit of lust and help me to turn from worthless things.”

    Secondly, negative emotions lead back to addiction. So we must identify what emotion leads us back to addiction and fight it aggressively.

    Anger leads to addiction: Pray: Father, take away my spirit of anger and fill me with a Spirit of love.” I have prayed this prayer a zillion times. It really helped. Anger increases satans' control, and that leads to...

    Pray: “Father, help me to repent instantly from anger.”

    Thirdly, bitterness. Life has taken a left turn and we let bitterness take control. They said or did the wrong thing. If we choose to stay bitter we ruin our life. Staying bitter is the exact opposite of creating your own Garden of Eden. Fight bitterness as if it will steal your joy (it will).

    Pray: “Father, help me to forgive and forget.”

    Pray: “Father, take away my spirit of bitterness and fill me with Your love.”

    Fourthly hopelessness. The Bible encourages us to always hope. The reason for this is because sometimes we can only see what we see. And when it is bad we lose hope. But Jesus sees you, in the future, when the Holy Spirit is fully in you. He sees the person who can take anything satan throws at them, and still is capable of doing His will.

    Pray: “Father, help me to always hope.”

    Finally, we look at the second half of the verse, “and give me life in your ways. Give me “life” means starting to live in God's joy, glory, presence, and love. If you want to see a sharp increase in these, pray this prayer often: “Father, show me Your ways and help me to do Your will.”



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    https://stoptheaddictions.com/home-page/sex-porn-freedom/sex-porn-freedom-in-30-days-day-6/

    https://thingsabove.us/9-common-emotional-situational-pornography-triggers/
     
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    To fight negative emotions we have to stop thinking over and over again about the problem. Instead, do a Google search on the best Scriptures to memorize. Find a few that speak to you and get started. God is way bigger than the problem that triggered your emotion. Let Him speak to you through scripture.
    Secondly, depression is not a Godly trait. To fight depression pray: "Father, what do You want me to do." Of course, you can do a bunch of the ideas listed on this site, and they will help. But... give God a chance to show you something.
    Jeremiah 29:11 ESV
    For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans for welfare and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope.
    Pray one million times: "Father, show me the plans You have for me."
    If you are obsessed with what God wants... you will be well on your way to defeating negative emotions.
     
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    Colossians 3:1-3 ESV
    If then you have been raised with Christ, seek the things that are above, where Christ is, seated at the right hand of God. Set your minds on things that are above, not on things that are on earth.

    How long can we stay angry or hopeless when we think of the things above?

    Consider praying: “Father, help me to focus on what You want me to think about.”

    Consider praying: “Father, give me life in Your ways.” Psalm 119:37

    I am a simple person. Sometimes I don't know what to think about, pray about, or do. So I just praise the Lord over and over again. Sometimes for twenty minutes. The results are usually amazing. Negative emotions are often forgotten. Temptations are often lowered.

    Think about the things that are above.
     
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    God wants our time, attention, and affection. When we double our attempt to do that, our other negative emotions fade in importance.
     

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