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Discussion in 'Dating during a Reboot' started by Monty313, Jul 13, 2019.

  1. Monty313

    Monty313 Fapstronaut

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    Hey everyone, this is my first post and I just need some help/advice.
    I’m 23 yrs old and have been attempting nofap for a couple of months. I always end up relapsing at the 7 day mark, but the past couple weeks I’ve had a big change. I’m completely desensitised from porn and feel like it will no longer be a issue in my life. I’m very motivated and determined to do semen retention for at least 90 days. I failed miserably.
    Today I had sex with my girlfriend for the first time in a while and I ejaculated within a couple minutes.
    I was even more disappointed because of the fact that she didn’t get to squirt , so 1 hour later we decided to do it again and this time I ejaculated even quicker. That’s twice within an hour and she didn’t even get to squirt..
    Back to square one and feel so empty and lost.
     
  2. JedWiley

    JedWiley Fapstronaut

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    You got overexcited, so what, forget that. I retained my semen for 3 months and when I had sex it was as fast as a lightening strike, after a week of rewiring I was an absolute gee again. You are never back at square one because you have learnt a thing or two, take that and keep going, one day at a time. Get to thinking that you are an addict and treat yourself like one. Can't you just only have sex with your GF, forget about fapping its poison.
     
  3. Monty313

    Monty313 Fapstronaut

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    Thanks for the reply, I’m not tapping no more, I’ve conquered that. The thing is I want to do semen retention because I’ve heard and seen some of the great benefits. It’s just so hard when you have a gf. And I cannot have sex without ejaculating . But I do appreciate the advice
     
  4. JedWiley

    JedWiley Fapstronaut

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    Oh right, well I can see the problem. I retained my semen when I was single. I haven't been through that so I don't know, i will tell you to keep your chin up and be positive, you are a great guy and you are on a noble path. Knowledge is power so keeping learning.
     
  5. bikinhappy

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    hey bro, read about tantra. it will teach you about technique of holding the ejaculation. goodluck!
     
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