First post, looking for successful advice

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by CivilWarNerd33, Jul 10, 2017.

  1. CivilWarNerd33

    CivilWarNerd33 Fapstronaut

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    Hello community,
    I came across this awesome resource while browsing online about porn addiction and ED. I'm trying to break my porn/masturbation addiction, and I'm eager to hear from people who have beat it successfully (no pun intended, har har). As you can see I've got a great sense of humor. A little bit about me/my addiction. I've been watching porn for 20+ years, masturbating to it daily in the morning, sometimes multiple times a day. I'm engaged to be married here in the Fall and it is having a HUGE negative effect on my love life, essentially, I Fap more than I make love to my fiancé, and that isn't good. It's not that I'm unattracted to her, I think she's beautiful, I even go out of my way to watch porn with women who look like her, which is pretty bad. The last two times we tried to have sex, i couldn't maintain my erection. I have an addictive personality, and I struggle with quite a few vices (all legal). Just hoping for some solid support, I'm fairly certain this is a judgement free zone so I'm looking forward to meeting people facing my struggle and helpful advice to guide me on my way.
    Thanks for reading.
     
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  2. entrprnr

    entrprnr Fapstronaut

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    I have an addictive personality too and I also know bow it feels to be in a sexual relationship with a beautiful woman but not be the man you know you are because of this catastrophe in our lives. All the best in your struggle. Hopefully we'll get through this together.
     
  3. Shockedbuddy

    Shockedbuddy Fapstronaut

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    There is a lot of journals of the guys who beat the habit or still in the way.
    I suggest you to read some treads of SO of PA, they are in the partner zone of the forum. Just so you know how could it affect your fiance soon to be wife in the future.
    Battle it
    Don't give up
    Have good luck and will
     
  4. Kenzi

    Kenzi Fapstronaut

    I'm a SO of a guy who is one + year PM free.
    He struggled/s with PIED.
    If you have any questions, please feel free to ask.
    Good luck on your journey