it's difficult for me to experience intimacy and sex together with my partner of 3 years... i'm a gay male in a committed open relationship with a bi/fluid male. i'm a classic distancer and my partner is the ultimate pursuer, natch! since our relationship is open, i find myself plotting to have sex with other partners. occasionally i will have sex outside the relationship, which then makes me want more PMO with others except with my partner. fuck and love seem elusive. i'm here because i want to try something different and i need your help, love, support and experience... for me, PMO has always been behind closed doors, hidden and a secret. sexual partners that i'm drawn to are not 100% physically, mentally and/or emotionally available. unattainable is a turn on and porn is a constant. all of this is a huge time suck and interferes with living a completely fulfilling life. i look forward to meeting you and getting through whatever comes together.
Welcome, I am glad you're here! Yeah, porn is a "huge time suck," and it only gets worse. I can't give you any relationship advice, but I'm glad to help you get rid of porn and masturbation. Let me know what I can do to help.
many thanks for your warm welcome! appreciate the link that you sent... pls keep in touch - i know i will need all the help and experience there is. day 2 here!
ps - as premium member, i was thought there was a weekly online meeting? do you know anything about this?
