My girlfriend and I had plans to go to the beach and the pool, but over the course of my reboot, she became worried that I would look at other girls with the intention of fantasizing and possibly lose my progress and trust with her. I'm just wondering if she is right in having us postpone going to the beach until my reboot is complete? I know that the beach is a place that can be full of triggers (i.e. women clad in bikinis) , so I'm thinking she is right, plus I don't want to damage the relationship any further by looking at other women anyways. I guess once I have better control over myself we can finally enjoy those activities again.