I am new here. I always thought that my porn/masturbation habits were in control. And it didnt really have any effect on my sex life. Also, given that I have been single for long stretches, its been kinda natural for me to jerk off whenever I needed. Now I am 38, and in a loving relationship and I want it to succeed. But, I believe that PM addiction is hurting my sex life. I am genuinely interested in sex with a partner when its new, and then I lose interest. I also think I have developed Porn-induced ED. Writing these thoughts here are cathartic, and I hope that they help. I want to start small, and see if I can stay away from PM for atleast a week. A week seems daunting at this point. I hope I find the support I desperately need in this community. Here it goes... today is day 0.