Have you cheated

Discussion in 'Problematic Sexual Behavior' started by Theamos, Apr 18, 2019.

  1. Theamos

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    How many of you have cheated on a spouse or partner?
    Did porn play a part in the cheating.
     
  2. GaryMayor

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    I think porn plays a huge role in infidelity. The lack of self-control and rush for an excitement can push you into cheating. Firsty you watch other women, then you start to find more stimulating stuff like chats and so on. After that you can think about prostitutes and even affair in work. The question is if watching porn is cheating or not.
     
  3. Theamos

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    Good question if porn is cheating
    I have to say yes
     
  4. Robullfrog

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    Yeah, same. If you count porn then yes as it's not something I could tell my wife about. She'd be devastated and she and my kids are the most important thing in the world to me. That's why I hate what I've let porn do to me. I don't want to cheat and lie.

    But with other women? No way. I've been faithful to her for well over 20 years and would never go with someone else.
     
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  5. One Mic

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    I doubt anyone would admit this online, though. Paints them as a real piece of shit to anyone reading.
     
  6. Theamos

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    It is not we all think we are angels here
     
  7. Habbapop

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    So you ARE a pice of shit if you admit you have done wrong in the past ? ...

    And yes, i have cheated and porn played a MAJOR role.
     
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  8. One Mic

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    True.
     
  9. Infrasapiens

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    If pornography counts, then yes, and I will never regret it enough.
     
  10. need4realchg

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    Alrighty amateurs, lol. For the SO porn feels like you cheated. Then they have that relief momentarily when you say: “ but I’d never do it with another women.”

    I have cheated many times, and I told my wife I was gonna go find myself and I went and started to see how many I could get. I never counted but it’s in the double digits.

    It’s brought me here. Porn too both, and would consider myself a subject expert. Lol. And for me, I grew up super religious and Never had premarital sex or cheated with any girlfriends. (I got married fairly young though).

    But i would actually like to hear from others here. I think cheating (with another person) happens because you plan, strategize and execute it.

    I have heard ppl say it was a spontaneous thing and sorry guys but I call bullshit on that.

    Porn is not spontaneous neither is cheating. Nobody forced us at Gunpoint to go down on someone. Or even a ONS.

    You need an opportunity, motive, and chemistry. Maybe I am watching too many action movies.

    But ...You know the basic movie line we use: “ it just happened baby, I didn’t mean it!”

    No way bruh. Your dick didn’t fall down her vagina.

    Porn doesn’t stick it’s sexy leg out and trip you up and lock you out of reality for 90 minutes while we de-stress.

    I haven’t ever talked to professional cheaters before though so — tell me, do you accidentally cheat or plan it but never admit it??
     
  11. Habbapop

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    What's up woth the atitude ? ...

    But back on topic, no i don't think there is " ops i cheated"... It starts with a longing for something you miss in the relationship. In my case, porn sex and the stimuli porn gave me. the kick, the energy the adrenaline.. But that, to be honest is nothing compaird to the feelings i feel now. And im not even thru my 90 days
     
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  12. need4realchg

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    My bad dude, thought it was obvious I was being silly saying by saying amateurs just because acting out sexually is my biggest challenge and honestly I don’t regret it like I should.

    I am trying to do what’s right ignoring what my lower body wants. And yeah it’s tough, but after having done it for so long I feel like it’s really tough
     
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  13. Habbapop

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    I know the feeling, been recoveryng from sex addiction for a year now. PM is the "last" part.
    I regret my affairs, cous they have just been a search for relese.
     
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