Having a hard time messaging women online

If she does, then she does. It's best to be honest no matter what. Better for her to know the truth than to get hyped to a lie.

 

its a anxious experience on either side

 

Not all women are going to judge you because you are a NEET. We all have our down times and if that person cannot accept your current circumstance then she is not worth your time.

If the woman you are messaging is a NEET herself then would you look down on her for that? Probably not, I'm assuming.

 

What I am saying is that it's scary sometimes to reveal oneself, especially the part of us that we feel very uncomfortable to reveal to others, but the only way to know whether she is the one for you is to be honest.

Also, someone told me that a healthy relationship is built on the foundation of honesty. If we hide things from our partners or potential date, we are in a way distancing ourselves from the one we supposedly want to be closest to. You might be fearing that she will reject you but you should also consider the great possibility that she will appreciate your honesty, feel your sincerity, and feel more comfortable to reveal more intimate things about herself (^ー゜)