Help me!! Depressed and feeling guilty

You're not a bad person. Could you have gone about it a different way? Yes. Could you have avoided the whole thing? Yes. I am just being honest here, I am not asserting anything. Lying to yourself won't help. Lies with fall in on each other and cause a world of trouble internally.

Again, you obviously aren't a bad person because you are worrying about how you made that girl feel. If you said, "f*** it" and completely discarded the whole thing and completely disregarded her feelings then you would certainly be not so good.

Now, I don't mean to be callous, but she will be okay. You don't need to go and try and see if she is alright and all that. She will be fine. Dont worry about her. You need to pick yourself up before it gets way too hard to do so.

Everyone does some bad sh** every now and then, but those same people can also do some wonderful things. In terms of mild transgressions don't think in terms good or bad. A bad act happened, but how you respond to that is they key. It doesn't define you as a bad person. If you define yourself as a bad person, then you won't have an opportunity to change. There will be a mental block. You are just a person that is caught in an addiction. This can change.

 

It seems like she's purposely trying to make you feel guilty. Like y'all both used each in a way so I wouldn't be to worried or feel guilty about. Congrats on pulling yourself out of that situation