I need to get this shit out of MY LIFE FOR GOOD. I feel the only way for me is to block it entirely. I know that some people are against that, but i fall in the traps of checking some sites out and then relapsing. I tried blocking before and it gave me the most success. Upon until.... i found a way to bypass it. Unfortunately my smartass found a way to bypass K9. so that is no longer useful for me. Also stayfocusd chrome extension is a piece of cake to bypass. So i'm looking for something that will make me block it for once and forever. I need to block the P websites, and some other sites. Is there also a way to block some youtube videos? with K9 this wasn't the case. Also i need to be able to block microsoft or whatever from saving myself from reinstalling my pc. I tried everything guys.. it's clueless. and i'm starting to think someone or something doesn't want me to leave this addiction. Do you know how hard it is just to block this shit out of your life??? There's nothing that i've found that gave me success. it's been a struggle ever since. Or you gotta pay for some software.. it's pure and pure evil...
I cannot offer any advice on the tech side, but I can hear the desperation in your post so I'll offer what little advice I can. This isn't meant to be harsh, but all of the technology and software in the world cannot and will not prevent you from relapsing if you've not fully committed to kicking the habit. I know because I personally tried every "trick" in the book for many years and it never worked. These are tools that you can use to help yourself, but if you intend to restrain yourself using only these tools you will fail every time (IMHO). Use NOFAP as a support tool. It helps. Don't fall into the trap of poor self esteem & feel bad that you cant just "tough it out and stay strong". Be kind to yourself, commit to your goal and never give up. My 2 cents for what it's worth.
I appreciate your feedback bro. It means a lot to me. I guess i have to stick to it. the longest i've gone is 8 days, which i just recently relapsed from. It's so damm hard. I know all the evidence, i feel so much better not doing it. And i feel so fucked up when i do it, yet i still relapse somehow. it's pure evil..
Wow, it feels so great to know that are people with the same struggles. And you're right. The temptation will always be there and specially when i'm somewhere else i could use a computer or a phone... I managed to block it on my phone with great success though. It's the computer that's easy to bypass.. I'll have to accept it, and do my all to stay away from it. It's so hard. but i appreciate the feedback it's motivating to see you went trough the same struggles and you're on your 58 days now. That's inspiring!
Blocking by technical means is only good for slowing you down when you get an urge or you are triggered. So don't give up on blocking software or configurations, but do be prepared that ultimately it is your decision.
Yes, it is your brain! The fight is internal. Asking for the mother of all blockers is like asking for a magic wand - make it impossible to fail and then I will win. But there is not guaranteed blocker and there is no magic pill. Like overcoming all the other addictions out there, it sucks and it is fucking hard and soul destroying. Yet, this community has many successful people, just as addicted as you are, yet rebooted after all the filth and damage they have experienced. The key is, you really have to want to be free from it. From that motivation comes the resilience which leads to success. The battle is yours and it is in your head. The key to evasive action is to take it immediately. If you delay you will relapse. Good luck.
