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Discussion in 'Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunctions' started by Helpmeout123, Sep 23, 2019.

  1. Helpmeout123

    Helpmeout123 Fapstronaut

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    hi all, I am 67 days in to nofap. It’s been going really well but last night I was about to have sex with my gf and lost my erection. Any idea why as this feels like a backwards step? I’ve been able to stay erect since day 10 so I am unsure why it’s happened so late in to the process
     
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    12&6 Fapstronaut

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    Dont focus on "a process" focus on you and your progress. Thats not uncommon from what Ive heard. My urges aligned w/ my c*ck after one month. It was a balance though. Still is as Im back on again. I wore my girl out. Then- it left much like that. In my experience the longer you hold off the better. Even while your having sex. This may sound strange but bear with me....Depending on what my girl wanted at the moment or what the situation called for or I needed...Id go slow and full swing...this really helped my brain. Seemed to be like a refresher coarse for brain and c*ck. Back to basics. Your brain will soak in that new moment,creating new memories and sensations. Positive.Now Im sure thatd probaly be weird for your girl but it helps the pathways because your focusing on the intesity and that for me was great. Try karezza. It helped me a lot both emotionally and therefore physically. Many find rebooting w/ a partner odd. It can be but it can also be VERY empowering. For both. This all helped me.It helped because then came even more intense emotion and passion. Which only served to muster the troops full on. Build slow brother.
     
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    Helpmeout123 Fapstronaut

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    Could this be the flat line where nothing is turning me on??
     
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    12&6 Fapstronaut

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    It could be a flatline. Yet that has always been a good thing for me. Its your bodys way of turning a page. A new chapter. One thing Id suggest is human touch. Especially if your w/ a partner current. Dont focus on penetration but holding them for long periods of time. Im a very physical person a bit,I enjoy holding my girl when Im in a relationship. Focus on remapping that connection. Kiss make out but dont focus on sex. It maps the emotional and then jumpstarts the physical. My current state is backwards as well. Urges are insane. I want to f*ck...but I damper that. The troops are very sensative and only mustering a bit. After this stage and later during sex dont focus on the O. Focus on slow and full swings. Retrain your brain at its peak sensative to positive good healthy sex and your girl. From there youll map the stars. Beware you may lose 20lbs when you blow.
     

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