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Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by Darren hutto, Aug 12, 2020.

  1. Aug 12, 2020 #1
    Darren hutto

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    help guys I was doing good and too me I am but I did look on sextpanther a website where you play money to call women even pornstars and sext them too they are really hot too I did get hard while on the site but don’t do anything!
     
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  2. Aug 12, 2020 #2
    IGY

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    You need to avoid anything that will trigger your lust. I know it is hard Darren - no pun intended :rolleyes: - but you have to control your fascination with sex workers. sexting is still porn. Your brain is looking to get a dopamine rush anyway it can.
     
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  3. Aug 12, 2020 #3
    Arjuna's path

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    How do you want us to help you?.
     
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  4. Aug 12, 2020 #4
    Darren hutto

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    I don’t know guys but I know my mind was trying to trick me this morning and I have been praying like being really serious with god about this serious problem in my life it’s so difficult because my family don’t understand why I struggle with this but it ain’t going away
     
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  5. Aug 12, 2020 #5
    Darren hutto

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    Yes I know it is but I’m not going to let it win before that happen this morning me and my mom was argument and when I’m depressed or mad and use to feel better
     
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  6. Aug 12, 2020 #6
    IGY

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    That is interesting. So often the trigger is not sexual. It is some shitty situation or nasty emotion that we cannot deal with. Stroking our dick and watching sex makes us forget for a little while. But the bad feelings quickly return and we can end up binging because we don't know what to do.
     
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  7. Aug 12, 2020 #7
    Darren hutto

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    Yes I know man like sometimes my emotions get the best of me and I’ll start crying for no reason I get really emotional I try to forget my pain by using porn or sexting sexworkers online but it never helps me afterwards but sometimes my emotions take over and I just want to feel better so I watch porn
     
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  8. Aug 12, 2020 #8
    IGY

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    I understand. In fact, it is good you can cry. Many men try not to, but bottle emotions are even more painful. You also get plenty of erections, which would suggest you have not masturbated to excess. Some guys have a dead dick. o_O
     
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  9. Aug 12, 2020 #9
    Darren hutto

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    They I don’t have Ed or nothing like that that’s not the problem mine is being addict to women porn lesbians
     
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  10. Aug 12, 2020 #10
    IGY

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    Is same-sex porn more of a turn on for you then?
     
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  11. Aug 12, 2020 #11
    Darren hutto

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    Yes girl on girl sex is
     
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  12. Aug 12, 2020 #12
    IGY

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    Do you remember your best ever streak at NoFap Darren?
     
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  13. Aug 12, 2020 #13
    Darren hutto

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    2 weeks at best then the brain fog killed me
     
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  14. Aug 12, 2020 #14
    IGY

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    Two weeks is good! Set yourself small reachable goals that will get you there. Maybe two or three days at a time. Even if you are really horny, tell yourself you must not give in until the next milestone just 48-72 hours away, or less. When you get to each point. Renew your determination to reach the next one...
     
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  15. Aug 12, 2020 #15
    Arjuna's path

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    That sounds like a smart one.

    https://www.mindtools.com/pages/article/smart-goals.htm
     
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  16. Aug 12, 2020 #16
    Darren hutto

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    Yes man I’m on day 3 and it’s been getting a little hard for me man because my brain wants a rush so it been trying to trick me
     
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