Hi I’m new and I seek help

There us hope, so don't be tempted to despair. It sounds like you have recognized that you have a problem with P. That's a really good place to be. You are also motivated to change or you wouldn't be on this site. A new Dawn beckons. I'm new too btw. Keep strong RUAR07!

 

It's a good thing you want to quit porn, but my suggestion is that try to find stronger reasons to quit porn. She is very important in your life, but you are the one who is being damaged because of porn. Every day you keep doing it, your brain keeps wiring harder all these crazy paths that will make you a stronger addict. Find the values that porn is making you break. For example supporting an industry that is exploiting and ruining all these young girls; having a doble life, failing on your responsabilities, spending your youth time doing something empty, which doesnt make you a better person, or make anyone better, time you could be spending to study, to help... These are just some examples that come to my mind. My point is that I beleive that quiting porn requires a lot of strong reasons. I say it because I have been there, trying to just quit because someone else, without understanding the real reason why I should have quitted, now I get it, and that gives me strenght. I wish you the best on this battle.

 

Hey welcome to the forum! Nice to have you alongside us fighting the good fight! : )

I strongly advise you to be active on your profile; start by choosing an avatar and then make daily posts to show you're active and needing support/encouragement. They've got a neat little feature that shows freshly posted statuses for all users to see. People will find your profile and give you
encouragement/support.

You should also highly consider creating a public journal (in the appropriate section[<-- link] for you ) and write about your days in more depth for us members to follow along on your journey!


★People love to communicate in the profiles section and also the journal section. These are 2 of the most important sections. Also, we could always use your help in supporting members around the forum and in return you most likely will receive some as well!


Last but not least: Good luck on your journey here, make sure to really give it a try with all your heart!

 

Welcome friend,

Good to know that you have a very strong reason to stop. A silent accountability partner. Just do it for good.

Please active in the forum and communicate with others, it will help..

All the best.. be brave.

 

Hello and welcome!

We are glad to have you as a part ofour community. Here are some quick links to get you started.

Getting Started Guide | How to Use the NoFap Forums | Panic Button |Day Counter | Rebooting Resources|Forum Rules | Glossary

If you wish to keep a journal of your progress you can do so in the appropriate section found here

You can also take part in one of the many challenges available. It can be a tremendous help. Challenges

There are plenty of wonderful, friendly and knowledgeable people here to help you along on your journey to a life free of PMO. I wish you nothing but the best!