Hi. I am new.

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by Jackson Rorschach, Apr 8, 2019.

  1. Jackson Rorschach

    Jackson Rorschach Fapstronaut

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    I am new. I have decided to do NoFap due to having HOCD. I hear it can do alot of good. So will attempt it. I actually started the journey about 10 days ago. Also if I may pose a question will introducing myself. I have not looked at porn or masturbated, but the other day I was viewing pictures of an actress I like. While viewing her I began getting tempted, and of course got some sexual thoughts about her, but ultimately i did not succumb to thr temptation. Is that alright? I didn't masturbate and the pictures were of her fully clothed. So it cannot constitute as porn can it? I hope it is not cheating.
    Also a similar thing happened today, but i didn't succumb.
     
  2. Hello welcome to nofap, glad to have you here.
    Some say fantasizing is a relapse, i try not to fantasize, the thing about thoughts is that you cant control them, accept them and let them go. Now if it is a sexual thought very strong dont fantasize, dont continue it because you will relapse. I try not to let the fantasizing pass 10 secs. If you see these pictures with the intent of finding sexual pleasure you will fantasize and it is a relapse. Because the main idea is to not touch yourself, dont seek any kind of sexual pleasure, only sex with a real partner. I mean its ok to look at normal picture but you gotta understand how bad you got from pmo and if its gonna only make your reboot worse. I try not to look for pictures of hot girls, because i know it will stimulate me and i will relapse. Even if you dont relapse your brain will continue to keep asking for this pictures till you see yourself watching porn. So actually better answering your question, dont look these pictures if you just wanna see it to fantasize and imagine things, you will relapse. Take care and good luck on your journey.
     
  3. Jackson Rorschach

    Jackson Rorschach Fapstronaut

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    Thank you. So basically while fantasizing isn't really relapse it can lead to one? I should stay from those pictures in order to avoid traveling down the path to relapse.
     
  4. Yes you got it. But you will understand in a few days when you reach a week of reboot if you get yourself fantasizing too much you will get a boner and will masturbate if you keep your fantasies. Do not fantasize if possible, I know how hard it is, but for a better reboot, do not do it. Peace.
     

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