Trigger ahead: Had a good run but fell into having too much free time on my hands today which led me again to sitting in a sex chat room for hours wasting my life away. Which led me again to seek out like minded perversions of masterbating to hentian porn and straight oral compilations with others.... Attempting a reset...wish me luck
Because dopamine starts releasing when we seek, and because it's the thrill of the hunt which is the true addiction, you need to remind yourself daily that it's not the sexual stuff and the porn you're addicted to, you're addicted to the process of seeking it! Shift your attitude to seeing the seeking itself as the slips and you'll have less of them. PORN IS NOT REAL LIFE - Perv at as many women in real life if you can do it respectfully, talk to women and show normal amounts of interest in them. Porn is pixels on a screen and you alone in your room. It's not real sex. If you were porn-free, real sex would be a million times better. If you can't obtain sex right now, you're not getting yourself any closer to that. Our ancestors wouldn't have found it easy either. That's why having an easy dopamine button on your computer isn't good for you. Obtaining mates should take some kind of effort. Live in tune with evolution You are training your brain to make zero effort as well as overloading it with something it wasn't made for
That gets me too sometimes. I actually have a daily list of things to do now, to keep myself busy. Living by a schedule might not be fun, but it might be necessary and temporary until progress is made. Honestly i am okay with living by a schedule because the things on my To-Do list are a lot more productive than watching porn. My time is not being wasted as much as before.