How do i deal with sexual interest from girls during reboot?

im in a similar boat and I know its difficult.. thats pretty much all I can say.. sometimes I think of how it feels to me to be led on, and then realize thats what I do to girls and it makes me feel terrible.. but its especially difficult from PMing all these years to let go of the sexual energy and then all the sudden, I justify it in my head saying that it's not an issue that I did that, and that I didn't pussy out, or wasn't in fear. I know in other situations, the best thing I can do is recognize the fear before it catches up with me so that at least I'm AWARE of it.

 

Stop flirting bruh

 

The answer is pretty obvious I would think. Stop flirting and reboot it sounds like you are not taking it seriously no offence. You said you have ED so that means that every single time you try to do something with a girl you will have problems. This will literally burn bridges because you are leading these girls on and they might not give you another chance next time. You are not ready yet better to overcome these problems first otherwise you will never forgive yourself for all these opportunities that you are letting go to waste. Is it really worth flirting with all these girls when you know you are not going to do anything? That’s torture for both yourself and the girl.

 

Hi, im 18 years old male and i have a girlfriend.. you know i think that having relationship really doesnt let me complete my nofap challange, i always get laid, and its soo constantly that i might say i have ED.. but usually when im "doing the thing" i dont think about f*ck something up thats why my erection isnt always that bad, but the thing is that i have been in places where you been, i know what its like.. my first bad experience was when i was 17 and wanted to have sex with the hottest blonde chick i met, but i failed beacuse i was soo drunk and wasted that i couldnt get my friend up.. from that time i felt depressed and got social anxiety.. but later on i tryed again with other girls and it worked out pretty good, i do sometimes go soft but i dont get shy to ask her to blow me, i dont know why, but i cant say im addicted to sex, i think yeah is awesome and everything but we must see further than just sex.. watching porn, masturbate or constantly having sex doesnt allow us to see true beauty whats outside..