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How do I look at girls normally?

Discussion in 'Dating during a Reboot' started by Mr Habits!, Mar 13, 2022.

  1. Mr Habits!

    Mr Habits! Fapstronaut

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    There are two very sexy girls in class and I can't stop looking where I shouldn't look (because the places I shouldn't look are way too big and noticeable).Could someone give me advice on how to not to stare down when I see them? Thanks and have a nice day!
     
  2. ImFuture

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    Man, is not that hard.

    I went last night to a party where girls went there showing up their tits like no shit.

    Who they wanted to fuck with, the guy looking their tits?
    or they guy looking her eyes while having those huge tits telling ya "hey look at us"?
     
  3. ZanFabio

    ZanFabio Fapstronaut

    Know that its normal and common for guys your age to want to look, and there's nothing to be ashamed of. I think the big key is to get away from porn for a long time so your brain is more balanced. . . the problem could take care of itself then. Probably 95% of guys in your class have a porn addiction so if you get healed you have an edge vs the competition to date these ladies soon.

    As for where to look, just try to make it a habit to either look at your paper or the teacher only.

    ...and if your teacher is the one that has slammin' juggs, then I'm really lost on what advice to give! ;)
     
  4. Mr Habits!

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    Thanks! Today I looked at their places less than I normally do, so I am very proud of it. Have a nice day!
     
  5. Z.e.n.o

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    Maybe porn has helped us developing that attitude? I am also watching parts. It is described as somehow not mature, but not wrong.

    One guy saw a girl at a party and told her: "what a nice ass! Do you want to have sex with me?" And she told, "yes, thanks". :D different people different attitude!

    It's also said to look beyond the body and in that way it may fall by itself.

    I'd rather be involved in body parts until i get tired of it rather than feeling guilty...
     
  6. I Won't Stop

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    Hey, I totally feel you about this, every guys goes through it and it's nothing to feel ashamed of.

    Advice that's helped me is to look at them in the eyes or head generally (I prefer at the top of their nose when cooling off from eye contact or head from behind). Note, you will catch a glimpse of other parts but its not a thing to feel afraid of. Keep practicing that and you'll be a star in no time.

    Also, try being friends with girls or try being around you sister more. It's good a good way to practice that.

    Otherwise, you got this.
     

  7. Maybe it's a different area, he doesn't have the same life style as you man. Or want's to get a girl that way at all.. Maybe he's nervous and just looking for a in depth answer.
     

  8. Firstly.
    Loose fear and say hi. :)
    Looks are only an illusion.
    If they are in the same class as you, you are going to recognize them every single day and they'll notice you. Just saying hi and making eye contact means they know you are just a nice guy or not weird by staring, give them compliments or try asking a question if they like the class so far. If they don't respond...Well then their not worth it at all.

    If you want to build up confidence or don't feel like it yet. I suggest listening to Solar Plexus chakra sounds or frequencies on YouTube. It definitely helps me during the day actually.
     
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