How Do I Tell Her?

Tell her you're gay.

 

Be honest with her. Just say exactly what you told us: that you think she's very attractive and sweet, but that realistically there's no chance of this turning into a relationship because she's on the other side of the world, and that you're looking for a mate who's a bit more geographically desirable.

 

That's respectable ... but look at it this way: telling her the truth is much nicer than stringing her along, only to inevitably break the news to her several months from now. Honesty right here, right now is the most compassionate path.

 

Slow what down LOL, if this is what you call fast, what do you consider slow paced?

 

I think you worry too much. . . Severe contact if needs be, but trust me, she won't care one bit. Girls only get interested when you've made significant emotional and physical investments. Chatting via twitter is nothing trust me.

 

You can be a straight forward on the complement. But if you're planning to have some kind of relationship with her, I don't think that would stand a chance. Only if you watch too many romantic love movies and are willing to go far away on your titanic to other part of the world for your Repunzel. Lol

 

Haha.. Bingo!

 

Passing glances. Direct eye contact though would be her moving too fast and grounds to seek advice on breaking contact. If she makes eye contact and says "hi" then it's clear she's looking to get married.

 

She's probably flirting with more guys than you.

 

What....what makes you say you need it to stop?
Right now this is a few messages, you're not adopting a child! Why kill it before it can go anywhere?