How do you know when you are ready to have sex after reboot?

Discussion in 'Dating during a Reboot' started by Daniel82, Jun 30, 2020.

  1. Daniel82

    Daniel82 Fapstronaut

    How do you know when you are ready to have sex after reboot?
    I was sober for 140 days after a One-Night-Stand before I had sex with my girlfriend. However, I had to stop because I grew irritated and felt cravings.
    How can I make sure this won't happen again.
  2. Ekalb

    Ekalb Fapstronaut
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    When you can grow the balls to marry your girlfriend and love ALL aspects of her
  3. StarRider

    StarRider Fapstronaut

    That's an interesting question. It reminds me of "When can you get back into social drinking?" asked by a alcoholic in recovery. The answer is always: It depends, might take a few years, it might be with you for life.

    One thing is for sure: You can't simply go back to your old way of living and continue to have one night stands. You need to completely disconnect from reenacting P and reframe your sexuality into healthy and loving circumstances. @Ekalb's suggestion could be a good start. You might need to overthink your partner choices as well and start over fresh.
  4. IbrahimViking

    IbrahimViking Fapstronaut

    You can't make sure irritation and cravings won't happen again. There is no magical future insurance.
  5. sam30

    sam30 Fapstronaut

    i like your comment lol
    Le 17 and Ekalb like this.

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