how long to see the benefits of no O?

Discussion in 'Dating during a Reboot' started by TreeGuy, Dec 30, 2017.

  1. TreeGuy

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    so im kind of seeing a girl, and want to find a way it can continue.

    she doesnt know anything about nofap, and has quite a high sex drive, so i cant just say something like no sex for 90days.
    i dont really think im trying to 'reboot' but my life has been really shit, and i think no O really helped me feel more motivated and confident. i did approx 2 weeks twice.

    im going to go back and read my thread, but how long to notice benefits from no O? could i for example say we can do anything she wants, but i cant O more than once a week, 2 weeks, a month?

    i dont want to live the rest of my life without orgasm except for baby making, but if its good for me, especially at the moment while im getting my life back on track then i need to work out some kind of rules for myself rather than whenever i feel like it.

    also is the 'orgasm hangover' worse if its been a longer since the last O? is there anyway to make it not as bad?

    any help would be great thanks.