I binged and did PMO 7 times today.

Sorry to hear about PMOing seven times. I wish I had some good ideas, but maybe somebody else here will.

 

I can relate. When I lived by myself, there were a few times when I pmo multiple times in a day. 11 months is a great accomplishment. Can’t relate to that long of a streak, so I applaud and admire that.

When it comes to dating, what is your long term goal(s)?

 

Bro I think you have said everything that needs to be said. It destroys your life. The void you describe isn't filled by porn, in fact it was created by porn in the first place. That is the evil of addiction. It fills a little bit of the void that it created before. At the same time, every consumption enlarges this void again. It's a vicious cycle that only gets worse with each use. The only way to fill this hole is to leave porn behind. I don't know your exact story. But it sounds to me that you met your girlfriend in the clean 11 months. She left you as it sounds to me when you started using porn again. Please excuse me if I misunderstood you. To me this proves that porn use is what makes you lonely in the first place. You have to solve this problem, then the loneliness will disappear. I wish you all the best and hope that you will stop this addiction.

 

I know the feeling. PMO feels very good in the moment but then your back to reality. It’s basically drugs. You suddenly realize that porn makes you feel worse about yourself. When you relapse, you have all these negative emotions.

We are all here because we enjoy watching porn. Even if it hurts us.

Hobbies may be of some help. For example, reading a book. I’m also addicted to music. So I spend time on YouTube looking for a new song or album I have never heard of before.

 

You don’t understand how relationships work yet. Porn short circuits the learning process. You need to understand why this relationship failed. Type “Corey Wayne” into YouTube. I suspect you have a few bitter pills you need to swallow. The day you begin to understand how relationships and attraction actually work is the day you put porn behind you for good.

My guess, you abstained from porn, started working on yourself, got a girl, and then got complacent. You aren’t the first and you won’t be the last. Learn from your mistake. You need to understand how truly valuable you are and get your life back on mission. Women come and go. It’s your sense of purpose that never leaves. Keep it close and treat it with care.

 

Now that you've binge, it can't be fixed, however the feeling after is true, you should get your life together by now. Let's use the Post nut clarity from you binge PMO to bring you more motivation, happy nofap.

 

The guy got himself a girlfriend and got sex and yet he does not know how relationships work? Also your man Corey is expensive as f***.

 

That is my contention. If OP had a solid grasp on what motivates women and his own self-worth he wouldn't be binging porn because he got friendzoned. He'd either still be f***ing her or he'd have moved right along to the next one.