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I don't feel lonely anymore with this website

Discussion in 'Loneliness' started by acr007, Jun 11, 2016.

  1. Jun 11, 2016 #1
    acr007

    acr007 Fapstronaut

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    When i moved to this new town and a new job i felt extremely alone because i was away from my gf and family. Sooner or later my gf flipped the script on me and cheated on me so i broke up with her. i felt completely alone because it happened in a snowstorm where i couldn't leave to go see someone to talk about it with. i took out my loneliness and anger on porn. it just made me feel more alone. i thought sex with other girls would help too but every date i went on i never got all the way with the girl. i think that was god preventing me to fall into another harmful relationship. i stopped trying and stopped thinking about my gf and setting standards for myself and one night i got a random text from a girl that my grandma set me up with and she is very cute and wholesome. i don't want any negative karma to mess this up so i joined this website. please message me for support and you will receive the same. I feel excited and it is a new route to quitting for good! Praise to Jesus on high!
     
    acr007, Jun 11, 2016
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  2. Jun 12, 2016 #2
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    @arc007

    Man, there is an exception to the rule. When your Grandma sets up a date for you! ;-)

    Seriously though, the cool thing about Grand Mothers is that they have all the experience regarding relationships + you are also their blood, therefore they do care about your wellbeing the most.

    Think about it, if they did some mistakes in the past, it was most likely with your parents.

    I would say, give it a try + nobody is saying that you are supposed to go all the way with her.

    I would say, take it slowly and do not hurry yourself.

    And if you are Christian, even better because there is a good chance that she will be too. So you can have a lot of fun together without getting sexual...

    Good Luck and God bless!
     
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  3. Jun 12, 2016 #3
    Peterparay

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    I'm sorry to hear about your ex, that kind of shit seems to happen to the "good guys" quite often.
    You remind me of myself so much in the sense that you feel like God is against you in the form of relationships with women, I've been having a lot of trouble with getting a decent girlfriend since my last girlfriend when I was 16 (8 years ago). And yeah, within those 8 years, I was jerking it and I felt like every time I masturbated it had an influence on my relationships with women.
    Quit while you're ahead, bro. Idk how old you are or how long you've been doing it but get out ASAP!!
    Love you, dawg!!
     
    Peterparay, Jun 12, 2016
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  4. Jun 12, 2016 #4
    Ekhangel

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    Haha, I once dated a girl kind of set up by my granny too! I thought I was the only one in the universe.

    Me and the chick didn't really work out eventually, but hey, at least that's an extra thing to laugh about with your granny.
     
    Ekhangel, Jun 12, 2016
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