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I identified why I view porn as immoral and need to quit.

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by MALayhee700, Jun 4, 2018.

  1. MALayhee700

    MALayhee700 Fapstronaut

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    I'm not going to reveal my entire reasoning for quitting porn, its something personal. I do however am doing it because it is disrespectful to women.. I know I just opened pandora's box on this forum, since there will be a male bias here. But in my failures of watching porn again, I can't stomach abusive content. I mean as a teenager, I got into some weird stuff.. But never sexual abuse, beastiality or anything we know that goes off the rails of depravity. I viewed porn viewing as an outlet for stress relief and the naive view that the women are having fun.. I know few do, but there are countless stories of women being abused off set on on set and it is never considered rape or assault.

    I need to delete my old naive view of porn just being sex, because that's all I viewed it as being younger. I posed questions to myself. "If there was no sexual abuse in the world and women and men in porn were treated with dignity, would I still watch it?" I would say yes. But there are other factors. If you can't be faithful to one partner, then what kind of man are you? Even in that scenario I made up, of no violence in the sex industry, you still can't have it your way.
     
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  2. drac16

    drac16 Fapstronaut

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    I'm glad you're quitting. Pornography is very destructive, no matter how light it may initially seem.
     
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  3. SolitaryScribe

    SolitaryScribe Fapstronaut

    The issue with porn is it plays on our fantasies. Whenever we indulge in any fantasy we lose touch of reality, and ultimately create unrealistic expectations of others.
     
  4. It is in a way disrespectful, it can be, but they get off on it, they want to be abused.

    And sorry, NOBODY has been abused off set, what are you talking about.

    How so?
     
  5. Porn is demoralizing and disgusting. You are right it is violent towards women.
    Great post!!
     
  6. Buzz Lightyear

    Buzz Lightyear Fapstronaut

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    And yet the irony is that many more men may be driven to porn. For in the real world, women are rapidly politicizing the relation between the sexes... a field that is very delicate and should to a large extent be left to the overflow of spontaneous and natural feelings... as far as one's passions are civilized of course.
     
  7. Deep Thoughts My Friend... Good Work...
     
  8. It can be, but Movies? Video games? You have no problem watching movies.

    Anyway, im in no way encouraging porn use, I disagree with it too.
     

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