This is my story, I have been masturbating for years and I do enjoy but now I think it's affecting my sex life. For about a year now I can't sustain an erection when I'm with a woman, sometime I can and have sex but sometimes it will go down after few seconds. Please what should I do. I have been embarrassed 3 times with 3 different girls and I just can't let it continue. Please help.
I also used to have hard times getting my thing up when I was 18. But after some efforts, I ve finally lost my virginity. I thought that if I m able to have sex it s ok to keep watching porn. So the following year, I ve been watching porn, masturbating, not dating girls(lost any motivation due to porn, chicks there are much hotter than the real ones). When I finally had occasion to have sex after that period, I failed completely. Like no arousal at all. So things just became much worse during that year. And I faile with 3 different girls after that. So you just need to make 90 days hard mode and stop watching porn forever, otherwise, your situation might become worse, like mines did. Ythe most important thing for you is not to think, that you re a special case and porn doesnt effect your brain that much, as others. It was the biggest mistake of my life and it caused me a lot of disappointment and struggle. Cheers
