So I got into porn at a pretty early age and it didn't take me long to dive into the kinky stuff (bondage, teasing, torture). And now that I've given up porn and I'm currently trying to do no masterbation I'm realizing that the only way I become aroused or get an erection is by thinking about kinky things. I get it that it might be a part of who I am, but I want to be able to have normal sex with a girl. It actually has me terrified for my future. Has anyone had this problem before? Did you find a way to get over it? Can I change? Id really appreciate some insight!
Welcome! I think you'll find a lot of hope here in the stories people share. The answer is YES you can overcome this! Keep coming back.
