I'm in college and this kills me everyday

Hey guy!

Sorry you're feeling down...and sorry if what follows seem high on "tough" and low on love. It's not meant to hurt at all.

REBOOT (!)... it'll make you stronger spiritually etc. Really, we all do it, but there is no point in hoping things will be different _without_ rebooting. Give it _at least_ 90 days.

Sounds like you're comparing yourself to others a lot and wishing you "had" things or people a lot .... neither's healthy. IMO, life's about _being_ someone. The rest follows from that. So.... along with your reboot, what can you do to _be_ the person you wanna be, can be, could be, and should be.... and thus attract those who appreciate that, male and female (I'd begin with regular buds; it's way less intense/demanding)? This too can take some time to develop, but it's a great way to keep your reboot on track -- in fact, I think it's essential.

Best of success, bro!

 

I know how that is been there done that. Here is something that realy woke me up on dating its a mindset " IF YOU DONT THINK YOUR SOMETHING SPECIAL WHY IN THE HELL WOULD ANYONE ELSE" If you don't think you a prize why would anyone want to be with you? I know that may seem a little harsh but its true you have to have some value of yourself no one wants to be around someone who will take anything it makes the other person fell cheap and you attracted low self esteem people I know myself that to be very true ,the better I thought about myself the better women I attracted.

 

As a former student-athlete at a US-College for four years, I can somewhat relate to what you just wrote in your post. My advice to you is to not care about what others around might say, do or think as that will do nothing but drain your energy and motivation to achieve greater things.
Due to my anxiety, neediness, PMO-use and short fuse (today I am quite calm/chill) I had a quite hard time getting women's attention and the few times I stood a solid chance of getting laid, I resisted as those women were of poor quality overall. Despite my hardships and struggles during my college-years, I was still able to focus very hard on my Chemistry Major which landed me a well-paid and very satisfying job further ahead. With my career came some confidence and the focus on self-improvement.

Today, I am a (still) young, fit, confident and healthy-looking man who makes good money and who have a much larger selection of women than in the past.
Many of my former team-mates though, who were often chasing women, bragging about their conquests, bullshitting around (i.e. not caring about schoolwork and doing unproductive things at their spare-time) do today have very simple, dull and unsatisfying jobs that they hate plus they have put on some weight.
They haven't developed jack shite in these last six years to be honest. Just because things might look grim now doesn't mean they have to be in the future.
Much of it is indeed in your own hands!

 

One of the best replies I've ever heard on this site.

 

I also forgot to add that I today have a much larger selection of high-quality women than my former team-mates do. To make matters worse (for them), some are still PMO:ing, then bitch and complain all day long how life has been treating them unfairly, although it is entirely the result of their poor life-decisions such as being lazy and complacent about their studies, despite having a full-tuition athletic scholarship.
Another funny observation; Most of the women that were attractive (and bitchy) during my college-years are today fat and used-up skanks that I wouldn't even touch. They might have been the shite (and catch) back then but today, I am the shite and the catch!!
The best way to describe this turning of the tide is "Pointdexter's revenge"

Keep in mind, that as a man/male, your SMV will only steadily increase with time through your 30's and up until your Mid 40's, provided you take good care of yourself and focus on self-improvement!!
For most women on the other hand, their SMV will plummet the day they turn 30. Some angry feminists and SJWs might call me a sexist, misogynist and all kind of names for telling the truth but I couldn't care less because this is how nature works and has always worked. Thousands of years of evolution cannot change that, despite our modern lifestyles.