I'm so addicted to hot girls ~ Help!

Try mindfulness meditation and systematic self denial.

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There is no satisfying lusts, even by a shower of gold pieces; he
who knows that lusts have a short taste and cause pain, he is wise;

Even in heavenly pleasures he finds no satisfaction, the disciple
who is fully awakened delights only in the destruction of all desires.



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Happy new number to you too...

 

You know, I have a similiar problem. I'm addicted to an incredible small number of girls, like, very small number. Most girls don't even attract me at all. So, my body basically tells me "This is the one, this is the girl" every time I see a really really hot girl, which is very rarely actually. But let's say I see 3 of them every year. And I keep on looking for more pics of them and stalking their lives. And my body always tells me that she is the one, I need to fuck her or I die. All this is bullshit. Remember that your body plays a trick on you. It tells you to reproduce or you will die. That's all bullshit! You will come to realise that later, maybe when thinking about it a lot, or just abstaining from porn and masturbation for a week. You may think it is the only satisfaction for you at this moment, but I'm telling you, it's only an incredibly short moment, and it will never give you true satisfaction. It will only last for a few minutes / hours and then you will have the desire again, and it will only drag you away from really fucking this girl or a girl as hot as her. You need to find some way to tell your body that this is not going to be the end of you. That you will not die only because you don't fuck every girl you see. If your body understands that, you're on the right way to a healthy sexuality, that won't make you suffer. But also, every time you suffer, think about it not as suffering, but as a sign that you are full of life and vitality. Do something with your energy, and do something with your life. The longer you stop with fapping, the more you will feel this energy. Good luck.

 

Wow, I'd never thought I'd see this. Is there something wrong with you? Going on Facebook and doing what? I think you need to get some help. As you can see, I'm just being overly sarcastic and I hope you don't take it seriously. I think any guy who has a dick and two ball sacks and who is straight would agree, I'm addicted to hot chicks too! But for me, I try not to overdo it. It's okay to a little bit of premature stalking just to maybe see who they are or check their photos, but I wouldn't take it too far or otherwise it will consume you bro. Trust me, I've been there. But yeah, try to get fb out of your mind. Do something active don't live in your room all day. Life is too short man and I know you can preoccupy yourself better than that. And another thing, don't be so hard on yourself!

 

I have the same .. butt now when it happend i going to the salah(Islamic pray)..
it helps for me.

succes bro

 

I've had/have a problem similar to the problem you mentioned. I chalk this one up to porn and it being a "sexual conquest". Porn has totally distorted my view of women. There are and is so many things that make women more attractive than their physical attributes, although this definitely makes up a big portion. Porn doesn't show a women's intelligence, personality, etc. All things that make women more beautiful.

I think we all know the women who wasn't super hott but then got to know her more and she was irresistible and likewise we've all known the hottest girl that when we got to know them became ugly.

As you get older and start to reorganize your priorities and start to do away with porn you will stop seeing them as "challenges". Just my two cents...