I'm tired to live

Hi man, you really touched me because in the past I found myself in a likewise situation. But then I understood that I’m not wrong just because I don’t hang out with the “cool kids”. Everyone likes what he/she likes, and believe me it’s a great thing you have interests different from the others. What I understood is that trying to force yoursef to like what the others like is just useless. I know it’s painful, and seems like nobody wants you, but I assure you it’s not like this. I feel you are a very sensitive person, and this can hurt sometimes, makes you think you are wrong, but you are not. Out there there are people with a great sensitivity too who look for people like you. The problem with us is that we are shy, we think too much. Well my suggestion is to stop thinking so much. When you see a boy or girl and you are thinking: “I’d like to talk to him/her” just do it. Do it despite what you’re mind tells you. Once you talk you are in the game, so just keep on talking and something will happen. And like this everytime, and it will be easier and easier. I wish you all the best. The world needs people like you.

 

I know how you feel I go through this as well. You are having these thoughts because you cant find your purpose in life. Only thing I can tell you is find what you are passionate about and go after it, listen to a lot of motivational videos (check out David Goggins speech ). The sad thing is that the people around us are not the problem we are. Its easy to point a finger at someone and blame them for your situation but we need to ask ourselves what am I doing to put myself forward. As i heard in a motivational video one time "as long as you deal with the enemy within the one across from you doesnt matter". If someone insults you that doesnt define who you are its what you do about it that does. Changes may not come right away but be persistent and do something everyday to take you towards your goal. I always tend to want changes immediately and get frustrated and watch porn to forget about my life but this makes it worse. We need to be patient.



Good Luck

 

I feel the same way bro, I will make a thread expressing how I feel too. Life as a young man age 20 is complete shit for me. I'm thinking of ending it all

 

It will pass like all things good or bad. Don’t consider a permanent solution to a temporary and changing life. Like Churchill said in WWII “If you’re going through Hell, just keep going.”