So I've been dating this girl and tonight I spilled the beans and told her that I trust her enough to tell her my deepest secret that only a few close friends, my therapist, and the anonymity of this forum know. I told her If we were going to keep dating the right thing to do was to tell her I'm in recovery. She questioned me.. alcoholics anonymous? Drug addiction? No I told her. I told her I'd hoped she wouldn't think less of me. She said verbatim "I wont think less of you." And I trusted her. I felt like we were clicking and I needed her to know about who I was. I didnt want to hide what I have been working so hard to overcome. I wanted her to know what I've been through. In other words I really felt something strong with her. So we are eating dinner out and I tell her "I'm working hard to stay sober from pornography and I'm doing fantastic." She looked at me and just looked shocked. I looked back at her and there was just silence. So I broke the silence "So now you know. Does this make you think less of me?" She flat out goes "This is pretty immature Ben." I turned red.. and just sort of felt my heart drop. I told her "I'm recovering and I wanted to tell you because I want you to know me and I don't want there to be secrets with us. I like you a lot Liz and just felt because we've been out several times and have spent so much time together talking, giggling and making out and figured youd understand. Well long story short.. the kiss after dinner was pretty short. She seems rattled. Maybe shes right.. this addiction is immature.