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Important realization about fetishes

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by ifindoubt, May 28, 2020.

  1. ifindoubt

    ifindoubt Fapstronaut

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    I realized after relapsing today, I only have a feeder/feedee fetish on screen, not irl. I get disgusted in fact.

    With that being said, will my fetish go away if I do NoFap(PMO) for 30 days or die down
     
  2. If you have a fetish then it may die down and eventually dissappear, most fetishes these days I think come straight from porn, so I'd say get away from porn for a while and see how it feels and how you feel. At the end of the day if you go back to porn you'll find yourself back at feeder/feedee content, because you never stop before you get EXACTLY where you want to be, and if it disgusts you then it's clear that it wired into your brain. SO get away from it all I say, before it escalates past what you're watching now.
     
  3. Be Aware

    Be Aware Fapstronaut

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    I have also experienced that fetish play irl rarely holds a candle to the fantasy in my head. What we should be striving after should be the real deal, not some fantasy.
     

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