If I like (and I DO) very andro. women,to the point its almost impossible to tell them apart from a boy, am I under a fetish problem,just as those who like trans women? Some people have told me,in anonymous boards,that "tomboys are bad,because they resemble pre-teen boys". so I was basically shamed into thinking Im a pedro for liking tomboys. This may sound like a silly question but its serious. Im starting to suspect this so-touted "wholesome" preference might be something darker. and I would readily admit I need help,if I do need help.
Take all this with a pinch of salt because anything like this is very specific to you. I don’t think tomboys resemble preteen boys. I mean they can do but I really strongly doubt the whole pedo thing if I’m honest. You’d probably really know about it if you were. As for the idea that it’s like a trans fetish, that’s hard to say. From my own experience I’ve been strongly romantically attracted to a lot of tomboys purely because they give a sense of individuality that catches my eye. At the same time I’ve liked (sexually) some trannys but I’m hesitant to call that fetishising as I’ve never watched trans related pornography or anything. I think a good indicator if it’s innocent or not is whether you look at pornography specifically related to tomboys (and highlight specific aspects of them) or fantasise about them for sexual gratification by focusing on elements of their andro nature.I’m also guessing liking tomboys is speaking mainly just physical attraction or is there any romantic/emotional attraction too?
I never watched tomboy p/rn,, I feel its "defiling the sacred" very stupid,I know,tomboy isnt an onthological category at all, shes just another girl. But ye, I never watched porn of these type of girl.
Altho you can never be too sure from that it sounds fairly innocent then. It’s not like you’re fetishising particularly body parts like people do with trans fetishes. I wouldn’t worry too much about it if I’m honest but the best judge is yourself
In my opinion and experience, I think that if this was something you found yourself attracted to before any porn experience, then that might what you like. We all have preferences so maybe that is yours. But I think if you found this attraction was created after watching porn, then it is might be more of a porn fantasy.
