Ok so my girlfriend right, so this guy dmed me saying emily doesn't love you and he was like are you sure, so he sened a picture of his and emilys chat and emily was saying to him I love you and stuff and he was saying i love you to and then I dmed her, I asked who the fuck is adrian, oh she was like he is my best friend don't worry'' he's my best friend i say i love you to my best friends. Should I belive this shit!
Maybe she's getting revenge on you for looking at porn... A great number of women view looking at porn as cheating.
She may know you watch porn and PMO but doesn't want to confront you. This other guy might woo her and if that happens she may break up and say it is because of the porn.
I’m going to recomend to trust her, tell her Adrian sent you these texts. Talk to her face to face. If he really is her “best friend” then this is clearly not best friend behaviour on his part.
I would trust your gut on this one. Even if she is right that means one of her close friends is a dick and wants to start shit with you and your girlfriend which calls into question her judgement in friends.
Well, even it is not what you think, you probably won't trust her that much in the future, so perhalps it is better to be apart.
Some girls have a way of figuring stuff. Maybe she thinks she's justified to cheat on you because you can't even confess to her your porn problem. Of course, she might not know but you can't know for sure unless you talk to her about it. Really though we shouldn't complain about our SO cheating on us since that's what we deserve. Why should we feel we're entitled to a faithful SO when we can't stay faithful ourselves? As far as I know, my ex's didn't cheat on me but I deserved to be cheated, and it's one reason why I'm not dating again until I'm rebooted.
If I was with any girl that said love you that easily to her guy friends, I would dump her out of principle... the only exception would be if she said love you to a gay guy or other girls. There should be boundaries and lines you shouldn't cross when your in a relationship.
Yeah I meant single girls do that as far as I know. Like I said though, they're 14. A 14 year old relationship dont really base it off of principle. I'm not trying to roast them, they can have a relstionship. But that's why I said nothing to worry about. It's little dude school drama.
you do have a point... this is why I never dated when I was 14. I once had a "girlfriend" who allowed her male friends to flirt with her... needless to say it pissed me off and I ended things.
I'd rather my SO ended things between us before cheating buuuut that's just me. I don't understand why exactly a human being deserves to be cheated on but sometimes I am quite dense. Isn't it more mature to end things or talk about what isn't working?
One question to seriously ask yourself is if you just have trust issues in general, or if you just don't trust her specifically. She's not necessarily cheating, but it's definitely a red flag, and dangerous territory. Some people do talk like that with friends, but it's unusual. Did you already have suspicions and a gut instinct about her before this "friend" messaged you?
If someone is cheating on someone they deserve to be cheated on just like someone who is faithful deserves faithfulness. If they don't cheat on you they're showing you grace and mercy. If I was cheated on I would like to think I would show grace and mercy because one thing PMO A has taught me that anyone can fall and do things they consider immoral. Forgiveness is better than revenge but revenge is understandable. We need to remember that SO are hurt deeply by our addictions and we shouldn't expect them to stay faithful when they find out. Yes, it's more mature to talk about it, just like it's more mature to deal with the root of our pain rather than hide from by doing PMO but the fact that we're on this site means at one point we didn't and some still aren't.
I don't want to give any wrong advice when it comes to other peoples relationship. But in my opinion I think it is pretty weird that her "best friend" are sending you are message where he tells you that Emily doesn't love you (and sending a picture of their chat). If they were just best friends - why would he do so? But at the same time - what if she actually is like that (saying I love you to all her bestfriends) and he is the dude trying to fuck up the relationship? (An immature act, but I consider the age of you...) An other question I think is important as said above, do you have any trust issues in general? There can be a lot of possibilities, and maybe I am totally wrong on how I think... but take care, be careful with what you do.