Hi, brothers. I've been watching porn and masturbating since I was boy. Now I'm married, it is becoming an issue. I only get to see my wife over the weekends because of our work. I would watch porn and get off during the week. It's quick and easy, but by the time I'm with my wife, my sex drive actually drops. I don't get my erection as easily, and I sometimes have trouble maintain it. It hasn't put much strain on our marriage yet. But I feel really bad. When I abstained longer, I know i can give her more satisfaction. I really need to kick the habit.
first U need to kick the porn. its a good thing that u r busy whole week. it helps u to stay away from porn. leave the unreal fantasys and accept real sex with ur wife. u can do it with some efforts. good luck.
i know the feeling buddy, sometimes i was waiting for my partner to leave so i can jerk off to porns... somehow I thought it is more exciting... not just porn, but got into dirty sex chats with random people too
we often fantasize about the perfect person by viewing porn and that person or event does not exist. We overlook the great relationships in front of us for fantasy relationships that will never exist. The porn needs to go.......
