Lack of intimacy with wife makes NoFap impossible?

Fully agree, but hard as h*ll

 

I understand how it is in her shoes and that's what makes it so important to fix this. I WAS in her shoes in my earlier relationship and that's what got me into this god damn PMO.

 

With my experience i don't think you can serve Two masters.... either it is artificial pmo, bonding with a screen and pixels in artificial fantasy land or emotionally reconnection with your wife and having real sex and intimacy. Also i believe that the emotional connection must exist and be built up on and worked on ... thus allowing for the sex to happen. There is no lust there as you have known each other too long. You need to re-wire to your wife and you CANNOT do that properly while you are still PMOing. for me it is either one or the other. Artificial or real. fuck the pmo and start to build on emotionally reconnecting with your wife and hopefully after a while the sex will follow.