There is an interesting article that came out today it was a Brit study which showed that women in long term relationships where they live with the man lose interest in sex more quickly than the men. The part that intrigued me was kind of glossed over but it said when men have sexual dysfunction women lost interest quicker. Personally I think sexual desire for women comes a lot from being desired so if your man has ED it seems quite reasonable that you don't want to attempt sex or would turn it down, it makes you feel bad! Or if he has DE it's the same plus an hour of sex than ends with him having no O. But the article like most presumes it's the woman's fault! Ugh.