Mindless thoughts of one girl

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by Sigma30130705, Dec 6, 2022.

  1. Sigma30130705

    Sigma30130705 Fapstronaut

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    As the topic already describes that this problem is because of thinking of one girl all the time whether I am studying or sitting idly. It's not like I have sexual thoughts about her or I beat my nuts around thinking of her instead when I was about to relapse once her thoughts suddenly struck my head and I quickly packed my stuff and went back to study. It's something like I want to spend time with her chatting and all of that. By the way, I am in 3rd week of my nofap and getting little to no urges but her thoughts are the ones which are restricting me to reach my full potential. So guys please help me out of this.
     
  2. modernstore99

    modernstore99 Fapstronaut

    Your mind will do many things to try to get you to watch porn. This is probably just another one. For me the best ways to avoid the strongest urges are exercise (especially distance running), being in places where I cannot PMO (library, restaurant, friends house), and talking to people.

    If you were in the woods with no internet device, you would not watch porn because you are physically unable to. If you were handcuffed to a tree, you wouldn't be able to masturbate because you're physically unable to. If the urges are so strong you believe you can't resist, find a mechanism or environment that prevents you from giving in. You will only need this method temporarily, but it can be vital during some parts of the reboot.
     
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  3. FormerLeatherneck

    FormerLeatherneck Fapstronaut

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    You got Oneitis bro. Snap out of that and come back down to reality and do things that will benefit your life.
     
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  4. from2003

    from2003 Fapstronaut

    Need to be mature brother please try about all this useless stuff if you are on serious mind set you can share your feelings to it but never live in illusion at yes someone like you or someone love you bro true love even doesn't exist only love of money and love of attitude and love of materialistic stuff exist.
     
  5. For a porn addict true love is not possible because his porn blocks any sense of love.