My Attraction to the Phrase "It's Okay"

Might be a coping mechanism that your body has decided to comfort to?
It's kind of like when you hear a song and a certain lyrical line makes you feel at ease for some reason. There's a few songs I listen to every now and then and I feel some comfort from that line actually. I remember listening to it as a kid and that it hit me years ago. Maybe it stays with us from a memory and just has connected our bodies to be okay after this phrase or word.

 

"It's NOT okay".

 

I don't know, I just imagine my middle school teacher telling me I was wrong.

 

Yeah I hear you. This kind of reminds me of the 1-2-3 count to make somebody stop doing something as a kid. I remember I worked in retail at a clothing store and I've seen this failed so many times and the kid just got frustrated and more angered at the parent. I remember variously only a few times it has worked. But oh man did the parents get mad from the times it didn't. Maybe its the vibration of the voice saying "It's okay." and especially who it is that makes you feel comforted.

 

Everyone's different mate! What works for you, may or may not work for me. It's simple.