My Commitment To Staying Femdom Free

Hi @Cyndi Lucy
Glad you are here. And very welcome to join us in our journey to a healthy, fulfilling life without any self harming habits.

It's a safe place here. We all are in the same boat, however the form of porn may differ a bit. But there is no single space for judgement here.
Maybe it's a good idea to keep a journal. Sharing your struggles, thoughts and feelings may help you to understand the underlying issues.

Keep coming back and get the most effort out of nofap!
You don't need to do it alone!

I wish you lots of luck!

 

Welcome!
Feel free to ask questions and tell us about what is troubling you.
It's an awesome step to a greater life!
/Baldur

 

Hello and thank you for telling us your story !
I am rooting for you & your success in your journey !

 

You are welcome! And YES! You will conquer it!
Cheers!
/Baldur

 

@Cyndi Lucy you are most welcome. You will derive a lot of help by reading the journals here and by keeping your own. let me know if I can be of any help.

 

Hi @Cyndi Lucy

You spoke of your toxic relationships of your youth but not so much about your more recent relationships. Since you developed your obsession with Femdom, how many real-life relationships have you had? What went wrong in these relationships? For most people, there is a distinction between the activities that turn them on in the bedroom and how they choose to live the rest of their lives. Were you trying to create female lead relationships (FLR) in which you totally dominated all aspects of the relationship? If so, was that because the idea of that turned you on, or was it because that was a way for you to feel safe given the toxic relationships of the past?

As all here would be quick to agree, getting all porn out of your life is an important first step. Once you have cleared the fog of PA away, you are more likely to be able to uncover and work through your feelings about relationships in general. It sounds as if you need to work through why your initial relationships were toxic in order to get to a state where you are confident enough about yourself, and others, to engage in relationships that are built on equality, not on power.

Good luck

ANH

 

Welcome. Here are some things working for me.

 

Hi @Cyndi Lucy

How is your journey going?
The first few days were the most difficult for me - getting off the starting blocks if you like.
Have you thought about setting up the day tracker here? I found that a good motivator.

I hope you are doing OK.
Best wishes

ANH

 

@Roady
You was right when you told me those they call themselves mistresses are already insecure about something @_@
( I know that i shouldn't comment like this but she didn't log in from 14 jan. )

 

It's hard to explain , but it just helps