I'm trying my best to fight my lust twords PMO but now when i erect it would be for a short time and i feel anxious all the time and afraid that i might have ED and this is totally making my life miserable thinking about it My fear is because i masturbated every 3 days for about 5 months Now my fear is making me think of horrible things
No , i'm single in fact so that never happened , infact i feel like maybe this happens because of the anxiety i'm in all the time
So its more an anxiety that you may have it now and you have an impulse to PMO to ease your mind that you haven't developed ED?
You're addiction is causing your mind to make excuses. The brain is hungry for that short term hit. it starts to work on you and it comes up with irrational reasons to break what it does not want. People have differing degrees of how much control they believe they have over their own behaviors and choices. I'm telling you now. Stop trying to rationalize the irrational. You were harming yourself and have now stopped. Own that decision, because it is the right decision. You are going to have withdrawal symptoms and your pleasure starved brain is going to fuck with you to get that hit. Be stoic and keep your eye on your goal. I don't know what your original goal in this process was. Picture yourself reaching that goal. You can make it.
Thank you very much , you've helped me with your explaination , i'll try to be as you said and achieve the goal i wanted Thanks very much
It can be anxiety. Natural nervousness. That’s why a genuine connection needs to be made with people instead of just turning up and expecting to have sex.
