Need some advice

I dont recommend it. That became a big problem in my relationship before i realized the addiction aspect. Pretty soon i was battling my own self mixed in with a bunch of better looking more sexualized strangers and there is little else that can destroy someones confidence than to not only get passed up for ones own i(younger) image, but that not having any distinction from hundreds of other women, most of whom are far better looking and voluptuous . I cant stand finding that shit no matter how many times i delete the "last copy". It has damaged my self worth. I dont think youll find it that easy to avoid porn once you objectify your wife in the same fashion.

 

No.

A gambling addict shouldn't stop poker to start betting. A drug addict shouldn't stop snorting to start shooting up. A heavy drinker can not be cured by switching vodka alone to wine together with friends. And a porn addict shouldn't turn to prostitutes or p subs, even if the wife is involved in the latter.

As sexy as I'm sure your wife is, you will find her videos and pics dull in no time. Visual stimuli are not meant to fulfil you the way physical sex is. They are kicks, they are novelty, they are candy; they are certainly not the sexual nutrition your body and soul require for optimal fulfilment.

 

I read a few threads like this before but never felt comfortable enough to give any advice or opinion on this topic. I was uncertain what to believe until now. I think @Lilla_My you made a great comparison with other addictions and got to the root problem here. Also thanks @kaia - you both just helped me to find my opinion about this topic! I still have so much to learn myself. Great question @Iceman2552.