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Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by Thegoldenmunk, Aug 23, 2016.

  1. Thegoldenmunk

    Thegoldenmunk Fapstronaut

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    Hi guys and girls,my name is chris,im new here and i have been faping for over 15 -17 years almost once a day since i was a teenager! This bad habbit has followed me for a long time,and i thought is was completly normal to jerk of everyday almost!
    I have many times wanted to take a break from jerking and porno but i couldnt resist the my urges as soon as i was alone to satisfie my sexual urges since there isnt a a girlfriend in my life to have regular consistent sex with..
    I think i have been in a bad cycle and want to try it out!

    Something hit me since i always felt ashamed to not to have real sex more often than im jerking! So i found this site by misstake and was willing to try this and see if im gonna feel better and so on.
    Im on my 16 days of no faping,i started 6 of august! My goal is 30 days then i will se if im gonna try for 90 days after that! Please ask questions if u want too..

    I must say that im feeling sometimes extrem hornyness for the first 2 weeks now im a bit depressed and dont really know whats going on,am i going in to this flatline mode soon or what? Peace /Chris
     
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  2. tbird

    tbird Fapstronaut

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    I'm on day 6 of 90. If you haven't already you should post a journal under reboot logs to track your progress and look back on the changes you experienced. Keep up the good work!
     
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  3. HoldtheDoor

    HoldtheDoor Fapstronaut

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    Good stuff, bro. You're already over halfway to your goal.

    Sometimes, when you remove PMO, you've removed a habit that normally provides instant gratification and escape. With it removed, your subconscious doesn't really have a clouded judgment. If you are feeling this way after stopping for a while, the depression might be indicative of an overarching concern and the sadness you feel in was blocked.
     
  4. Thegoldenmunk

    Thegoldenmunk Fapstronaut

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    Yes i think you got a good point there with the subconscious,im feeling a bit sad now and then and loneliness too,but yeah im gonna stick with this to see what happens to day 90..W
    But what should one do after 90 days of reeboting?is it aloud to jerk again without porn?
     
  5. HoldtheDoor

    HoldtheDoor Fapstronaut

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    I'm not sure. I think masturbating is a slippery slope. I'm on these forums because I would just masturbate here and there last year. Maybe 5 times a month. Thought it was fine, but eventually, it builds and gains momentum. All of the sudden, I found myself fapping two to three times a day for a week.

    That's when I realized, it's hard for me to exercise self control once I start. Everyone is different.
     

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