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New guy, 16 year old male, 8 days in (Dante)

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by DKO, Jun 24, 2015.

  1. DKO

    DKO Fapstronaut

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    Hey guys it's Dante. I've been watching P since I was around 11 or 12 and I've been PMOing since I was 13 years old. I have never really actually MO'd without porn, which is definitely not good in terms of how my brain's been changing. It has been such a strong and unhealthy long term habit that it has had some consequences. Even though my parents used a block (DNS) I still used proxies to watch porn just because I wanted to PMO so bad. I objectify women all the time and it's hard to have a romantic relationship because of it. I feel like I've been clouded up mentally for a long time and it's been trickier to think more concisely than usual. I've also had some HOCD that lingered for months at a time, which really made me anxious. I decided that I had to quit porn because it has only made my life much worse ever since I was 13. I am seriously committed to rebooting for 90 days and it has been the first goal I've committed to for a very long time because of my lack of motivation. I don't want to give myself any other option, and this PMO "addiction" ends here. I told myself from the beginning that the pain from withdrawal was necessary to feel stable again.

    I've figured out my trigger for PMO (stress), but all I need to do is get rid of this huge procrastination problem I have. Could anyone help me out?
     
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  2. Elduderino

    Elduderino Fapstronaut

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    Start talking to more girls. If they advance on you just take it as a compliment and if not you can be their friend regardless.

    I'm an advocate for creating healthier relations and perception of women by just being friendly and respectful. :)

    I owe a lot of my success to having lots of good female acquaintances, just having regular friendly chats with them reinforces the idea that they're human beings of equal status and not sex objects.
     
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