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Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by Bizzle, Jan 26, 2018.

  1. Bizzle

    Bizzle Fapstronaut

    Hi all, I discovered this forum about a month ago but was hesitant to make an account and post. It is surprising how welcoming and understanding everyone seems to be in this community. I really keep to myself so this is awkward for me. Hopefully over time that will go away. I just posted in a 7 day challenge, I figure that will be a good start
     
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  2. it was awkward for me when I first posted but It was a step in the right direction , just take it one day at a time and find stuff to do that you enjoy outside of porn like reading, workingout ,hanging out with friends watching non porn films listening to music good luck stay strong.
     
  3. D . J .

    D . J . Fapstronaut

    Welcome to NoFap where you are amongst friends who are here to encourage you and sometimes challenge you but not judge you.

    The enemy is here to steal, kill and destroy. What are your current strategies for combating the enemy called PMO?
     
  4. Bizzle

    Bizzle Fapstronaut

    Hi and thank you! Current strategies I have are just trying to find activities to keep me busy. I recently blocked a couple sites to make my computer less tempting to use when im bored. I'm hoping setting up little safe guards like that as well as finding a more active lifestyle will help
     
  5. D . J .

    D . J . Fapstronaut

    Good start! Check out In Case You Didn't Know for additional strategies and tips which may help you along your journey.
     
  6. Rhys1234

    Rhys1234 Fapstronaut

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    i felt the same as you! its nice to have you here and i am comfident you will reach your goals!
     
  7. Hey @Bizzle ,

    I'm just a normal ordinary member. No moderator super powers and no special insite. I share my ESH (Experience, Strength and Hope) of what works for me.

    Just another warm welcome and a heart felt hello. This community has helped me so much.

    What worked for me was "working" it. It took hard work for me to complete a hard reboot (No pmo) for 120 days, then move into a Sex Positive mode.

    First, reading the literature published by NoFap itself along with reading journals.

    Then, doing the work. Writing in my journal and replying to introductions and other's journals.

    Finally, but not least, getting involved with the fellowship. I found it on the forums, but also in people's profiles. The forums tend to be longer posts, where the profiles tend to be more "conversational".

    That is what has worked for me. I like to remind myself that this community was here waiting for me with the lights on when I arrived. Now, I have to do my best to be there when someone comes to the community.

    * L

    PS:

    For me NoFap is 1/2 program & 1/2 fellowship.

    Click on these people and post a "hello" on their profiles.

    I've found that the bricks that hold this community together are cemented with the support of the members of the fellowship.

    @JakeO5
    @Arohamystic
    @MLMVSS
    @Rising Sun !!
    @Ready to be healthy
    @Brahmacharin
    @Struggle Bug
    @tet2vd
    @Satchi
    @BigDawg913
    @zakes
    @LilD
    @kropo82

    Look at with whom they exchange messages and you will find more profiles.

    So, if you would have found more profiles yourself, why suggest these particular ones as a start? Those relationships started with just saying hello. So, my ESH is that saying hello has kept the fellowship alive for myself.

    Looking forward to your success and in seeing you say hello on these profiles.
     

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