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Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by xxbee, Nov 12, 2019.

  1. xxbee

    xxbee Fapstronaut

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    Hi guys, I am new here 34 male unmarried unemployed (last 8 years) .. Completely sucked by pmo addiction for last 20 years and depressed and lonely .. Tried nofap many times at max 10 days and usual 2-3 days but couldn't gather the will further.. . But now it has wrecked havoc in my life as my hands tremble after PMO session and I can't concentrate on studies. So i want to take control now. I have started a journal thread and I am here introducing myself to all you guys and girls for support... I want to get a nice job and get married and get out of the hell called PMO addiction.. Thank you
     
  2. Hello and welcome! :)

    We are glad to have you as a part of our community. Here are some quick links to get you started.

    Getting Started Guide | How to Use the NoFap Forums | Panic Button | Day Counter | Rebooting Resources | Forum Rules | Glossary

    If you wish to keep a journal of your progress you can do so in the appropriate section found here

    You can also take part in one of the many challenges available. It can be a tremendous help. Challenges

    Also, there are groups you can also join if you wish to do so. You can browse through them here. Groups

    There are plenty of wonderful, friendly and knowledgeable people here to help you along on your journey to a life free of PMO. I wish you nothing but the best!
     
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  3. ZORROW

    ZORROW Fapstronaut

    Welcome on board brother , well i can relate to your situation in some way , i am unemployed too and i dont study , like my concentration on studies is very weak for now , i never developed this habit of studying because i have always been indulged to this filthy habit of mine Known as PMO , i have been addicted to this habit for more then 9 years now and now i am really trying to get back my life , its never too late not for me and not for you either , so for starters i want you to read this book ( YOUR BRAIN ON PORN - BY - GARY WILSON ) . It works as bible here for the fappers who really want to quit this addiction and want their life back . You really need this knowledge in order to kill this filthy enemy PMO . Knowledge is power but we often try to ignore it , i realize that only porn is the major problem in my life and if i quit it then i can get my shit together and can live a life that i have always dream of .

    Its never too late , you know what , the recovery time of older guys is fast as compare to young guys , so your age here is now a benefit factor for you , whenever you get urges you can post here , you can either ask for help or you can help others who are dealing with the same problem . You will get back to normal version of yourself in time , see time will pass on no matter what , time doesnt wait for anyone so embrace it and every second away from PMO is contributing towards your healing journey so never lose faith in yourself and You can quit this , You will get everything back that you have lost due to porn . Just quit it now and never look back , You are far bigger then your addictions.

    I welcome you , we all are here to help each other , be a part of this community and start healing . GOOD LUCK FOR YOUR JOURNEY , ALL THE BEST . I BELIEVE IN YOU BROTHER , GO OUT AND WIN :) ;)
     
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  4. xxbee

    xxbee Fapstronaut

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    See it's just Day 2 and I was studying at night and immediately I got fed up.. My concentration was gone and I was somehow found myself restless. .. At this time I feared myself being internally forced to go to porn but I remembered this group and here I am reading your beautiful and so lovely response. My heart is feeling bit better now
     
  5. xxbee

    xxbee Fapstronaut

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    Zorrow brother your words touched my heart. You are among the few with whom I can relate to in my problematic and critical situation. .. Your confidence in my ability is filling me with positivity and power to do something for my goals. .. See that's the problem. .. Addiction blurs the difference between our goals and our pleasures. When we get the urge then we tend to think that our pleasure is our goal and rest is kind of burden and uninteresting. .. This is so frustrating becoming a puppet of our addiction
     
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  6. ZORROW

    ZORROW Fapstronaut

    You are among few who understand that this thing is ruining their life and now you really want to quit it , my friend its never too late you can and you will eliminate this habit known as PMO from your life for once and for all , just try to find that book and read it , and i tell you my secret , whenever i feel urges or have some this naughty kind of thoughts , i just simply log in to this site and i seek for new posts/people that i can help , after few days i kind a starting liking it , for the first time in my life i was feeling useful , after a very long time i got this kick , now i am never leaving it , it is one of my mission to cure people from their PMO addiction , i dont want anyone else to suffer what i did . So i am always here to help everyone .

    You go out and win my friend , life is very precious and our semen is too , one single drop of semen can create a whole human being , thats the gift of GOD , and they have given that gift to only us , MENS , preserve it and see how it can do wonders for your life , dont count the days because every second away from PMO is a blessing , Just keep yourself as much busy as you can and sooner or later you will be free from this addiction :)

    May God give you the desired strength and wisdom that you seek . :)
     
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  7. xxbee

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    I will give @abetterme99 and @ZORROW my updates of today at night. I am from India . Where are you guys from?
     
  8. ZORROW

    ZORROW Fapstronaut

    India.
     
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