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  1. Is there any hope

    Is there any hope Fapstronaut

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    Hi guys. I am 24 married with a child. I am female.

    So I dont have a porn addiction. My husband does. I came here looking for help and support. I did not find put baout it until after we got married and I found out i was pregnant. And Even then i didn't know how bad it was until right before I was about to give birth. I have been battling this for 3 years. I don't know how to trust him ..my heart is broken from it. He uses social media to look and then lies about it. When I catch him he wants me to show him proof and that is just as I he learns to hide it better. I dont know What to do any more. So any advice would be great. We are currently separated but I come visit every weekend and we have sex because if I dont he will look at porn more and im afraid he will cheat. He already tried but refuses to admit it and says he didnt really try. But I have proof where he was going to pick a girl up and told her he wouldn't be able to stop himself from coming onto her. And the only reason he didn't go through with it was because she told him no she had a bad feeling about it. So I'm trying to do a lot of healing here but he wants to do nothing to gain my trust back. Just attacks me and calls me names when I ask him about why he is doing things that he only does to hide stuff from me.
     
  2. Septimus

    Septimus Fapstronaut

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    Welcome! I'm glad you're here.

    You are not alone! Sadly, too many spouses are making the same discovery as you about their spouses. What may help you is to learn more about this addiction; you may come to have more understanding of your husband. I don't say that to excuse anything he has done, but only that understanding does help, I think.

    There's more and more being written about this problem, and if you do some research, on this site and others that this site will point you to, I think you'll find both understanding, and perhaps some guidance on how to proceed. I pray that you and your husband can find a way forward. I am so sorry for what you are facing.
     

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