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Discussion in 'Partner Support' started by PinkNemesis, Oct 25, 2020.

  1. PinkNemesis

    PinkNemesis New Fapstronaut

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    Husband is supposed to be 4 months porn free and no masterbation.
    But, nothing has really changed.
    We have sex less..
    I just don't understand and he doesn't communicate with me much about it.
    He has only said that he feels like it makes him easier to be in the mood...but, whenever I try to initiate sex...it just feels like he's not there and it takes longer than normal to get it all the way up.

    I just don't understand...
    Please help me understand.
     
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  2. How many years is he addicted to Porn and Masturbation Sister?
     
  3. PinkNemesis

    PinkNemesis New Fapstronaut

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    Around 4 years. Became addicted in the beginning of our marriage.
     
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  4. I was addicted for 7 years.
    Last 3 years i am struggling to leave pmo.
    In 2020 i somehow got control on myself.
    Sister Try Hard Mode for your husband atleast for 90 days.
    No relapse behind you no porn no masturbation
    It's hard for married couple but you should try it.
     
  5. Real Roboin

    Real Roboin Fapstronaut

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    I am so sorry, in my case he was still masturbating when we were dealing with ED just hiding it.
     
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  6. Sister First step - Abstain porn
    Don't look hot pictures of models it will lead to urges and then person masturbates
    If possible try to avoid social media because semi nude girls always pop ups on screen
    I avoided social media for 2 months
    my Ed cured no premature ejaculation
    and i am very much interested in my Girl
    Unfortunately i relapsed on 23 oct but now i am on hard mode
    I will never do it again
    where are you from sister?
    Do you speak hindi??
    sorry for my bad english
    I will suggest you one indian series
    It will help you for sure
    I quited porn after watching that series
     
  7. Trobone

    Trobone Fapstronaut

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    Is he quitting for you or him?
    Are you having regular checkins about emotions and updates to sobriety?
    Is he getting help outside just trying not to - or finding the root causes?
    Are you having any emotional talks outside this topic?
    Does he feel shame about it - or how it has affected you/the relationship?
    Is he accountable to anyone or just himself?
     
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  8. Le Capitaine

    Le Capitaine Fapstronaut

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    Hey brother, I saw some of your replies above as You mentioned that you went on pmo for 2 months and your ed and premature ejaculation both are cured. Please reply me with your valuable suggestions as I am suffering from the same or you could reply on my thread which I posted just few minutes ago about the same topic. We can have a chat there. I am new user here. I'd really appreciate your help.
     
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  9. I masturbated for these last 7 years
    from 2017 i was trying to quit in 2020 i am finally able to quit it
    In 2019 i suffered alot
    No morning wood, premature ejaculation
    2/3 wetdreams in week.
    In last three years I relapsed thousand times but i never gave up.
    Started nofap on 1 jan 2020 failed on 5 jan
    started nofap on 14 feb relapsed on 27 feb
    and so on 45 days is highest nofap days.
    but after 45 days things were same
    PE ,PIEd wet dreams.
    Due to my some emotional issues i was masturbating so badly.
    In last three months i am doing some exercise eating good food watching some good spiritual stuff on YouTube.
    In last three months i masturbated 35 times only before that i was doing it 3/4 times day.
    I quited porn fully .
    It was horrible to stay away from porn but i did it.
    Now i am getting morning erections everyday.
    Pied completely Gone.Now i am very Happy Brother
    Just stay away from porn and if possible from social media because you will get turned on unconsciously and you will masturbate for Sure bro
    So just try to quit it.
    If you relapsed no problem Never give up.
    It's not easy to quit it.
    One can absolutely recover from the harmful effects of over-masturbation. Based on how much masturbation done earlier, what age you are at and based on other health factors, it may take anywhere from two to six months to recover, or may be even one full year. It may be a bit difficult to resist the temptation of masturbation for such long period but definitely not impossible. Many people completely stop masturbation to recover to full health. Do not follow the copy-paste-knowledge of people in general, as most of them say masturbation is harmless just because they are reading it elsewhere or because modern science says so.
    Sorry for bad English.
    If you have any questions ask me bro i will try to help you.
    Don't Worry Everything will be fine soon
     
  10. Le Capitaine

    Le Capitaine Fapstronaut

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    Thanks man. Appreciate it.
     
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