No self-confidence trough Porn

I am currently going out regularly and would like to appeal to women.

Unfortunately it does not work yet, which is s.meich itself.
I am with myself not in the pure because I do not feel comfortable when I try to speak to a woman and therefore do not make it. I feel otherwise quite well and I know if I would make it would usually get a good positive feedback.

I'm not quite sure about the causes, but I think it's unconscious feelings of guilt or something like that because I've used homo porn and gay chats for years.

And I now only pre-shortened with it. I'm not sure this is just a theory.
I've really looked at hard things.
But if you consume something like this for years and then women have to leave scars in the subconscious.

I think when I have completely freed myself from these thoughts of pastness is the approach easier. I mean when I as a man imagination of girls to be covetted is the whole synonymous much easier. But this self-esteem has yet to develop.
The women are horny are brand new.
Otherwise, I always put these thoughts under pressure to reach anything with the response, I know it is nonsense and makes me just dissatisfied.My question is really only: How do I fix this?